Many things can impact a relationship and cause marriage trouble. In this article I would like to discuss just two of them.
One. Money and family financial problems can really beat up and bruise
not only a marriage but an entire family. Money problems add stress to
every situation and can define a marriage in trouble. Kids will be kids
and they will want things. Balance is always the best as you shouldn’t
buy your kids everything but some things. If the finances are in trouble
and you can barely afford the basics … it can really put a burden on
the whole family. Money problems are one of the primary reasons for
arguing and fighting in marriages.
One recommendation is that you should talk openly and honestly with your
spouse and kids about money. Also, we aren’t taught how to handle money
in schools .. so maybe start educating your self on money and finances.
There are lots of emotions around money such as its dirty or shameful
or the other spectrum is that some believe money is everything. Love
doesn’t come from possessions and open discussion can help your marriage
and your kids understand balance in life.
A few tips for you. Don’t keep money secrets. Discuss the past money
baggage. Be open and honest about money and talk about some dreams that
involve money such travel or the purchase of that dream home. Maybe have
a joint bank account but also allow each spouse to have there own
account for some independence. Don’t be afraid to discuss the tough
topics. Working with each other can really bind your relationship to
stronger and stronger levels.
Teaching yourself and your kids about money is just like learning how to cook, craft or fix a car. Practice and education.
Two. Having a baby can really cause marriage trouble. Baby’s are a
miracle of life but lets be honest … a baby can be exhausting to
everyone’s energy reserve and can put everyone on edge. Babies take
time, energy and a lot of money. These are a sure way to put a strain on
marriage.
New parents must first recognize that this will be hard and then work to
not get resentful of the other partner. Make your spouse a priority
even when you have a baby. The baby’s happiness and success in life will
be in large part due to how successful you are as a married couple
first. If you truly want to make raising your baby a priority .. start
with keeping a strong relationship with your spouse.
A few quick ideas. Consider adding a romantic event every two weeks to
your schedule. Spend time with each other after the baby falls asleep.
Share the daily chores and jobs. Work to be kind and not snap at each
other even though you are both exhausted.
If you are interested in learning more … I have some free articles, a
free mini-course and much more at
www.savemarriagecourse.com/marriage-in-trouble.
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