Have you been Betrayed & You are now Confused ?

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Have you been betrayed by your spouse? They cheated on you with another person, and you are now so confused as to what to do? Your emotional stability is leaving you and you cant get over the disloyalty and dishonesty. I know how you feel, I've been there done it. One minute I want to forgive and move on, but I can't because the images imprinted in my mind is so thick, on the other hand, I want to scream and cry and revenge, let my partner also feel the pain I feel.
You are confused because what you thought you had is not for real, you are confused because you don't think you know your partner enough, you don't know what decisions to make, what conclusions to arrive at and what your next steps will be. Here are a few steps.
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STEP 1- You have to be strong for yourself. It's normal to cry and scream, after that, then what? If your spouse is remorseful, what do you need to do? What actions do you need to take.
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STEP 2- Take some time out for yourself, invest in yourself and something you like doing and makes you feel good. You need a lot of time to process who you are and get in touch with what you really want.
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STEP 3- God almighty is the ONLY one that can build a home, so PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY!!!
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PRAYER:
We speak that the bed of the other woman/man would reject and expel every cheating spouse. We speak strength to the cheating spouses that they will receive strength to resist the temptation of the enemy. Satan, we command you to loose your grip off God ordained marriages. We establish a wall of protection around the mind and desires of husbands and wives from being pulled into adultery. For in Jesus mighty name we pray. Amen.