COHABITATION AND ITS EVILS PART.2

COHABITATION AND ITS EVILS PART.2
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Last time on COHABITATION AND ITS EVILS, we identified three evils namely; that cohabitation is fulfilling satanic agenda, it dishonours God and that it affects our relationship with God. So today we’ll be looking at other evils of cohabitation.
Like I earlier warned, cohabitation is a very dangerous stunt that we shouldn’t ‘try at home.’ We also established that it is Satan’s special delight to cause men to disobey some of the most dangerous commandments of God for man.
One of those commandments is that a man should leave and cleave to his wife. But Satan says “What’s wrong with leaving and cleaving to just any woman, must it be his wife?”
From our previous episode of John and Jane…the story continues. If you missed the first episode, simply scroll down for the part one of this post.
Now, eventually Jane is finally resident in John’s house and they live illegally as husband and wife. John’s neighbours now refer to her as John’s ‘madam’ meaning John’s wife. And she, in her ignorance, resumes all her supposedly wifely duties; satisfying his sexual desires, preparing his meals and washing his clothes and escorting him to events, etc. This lingers on and soon the question of marriage begins to crop up.
From here, other evils of cohabitation include;
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#4. MARITAL DELAY: So John comes back home to meet his food on the table, he gets sex as soon as he desires it and enjoys a warm sleep at night. Why should John think about marriage? No reason, apart from that of having children. Jane, on the other hand, is no longer enjoying her title as John’s madam when she isn’t seeing signs of any marital plans in place. She is now desperate; constantly pressing on John to marry her, playing the maid for John’s family, asking friends and relatives to speak to John about marriage but all to no avail. She is worried!
The truth is, John has eaten the forbidden fruit, so what else is there? Even though John had plans to marry Jane, as soon as he has had sex with Jane, his marital vision for Jane died. As soon as a man and a woman begins to enjoy benefits reserved for married people, the focus to get married is corrupted. In the end, Jane is heartbroken, John moves on, years have passed by and John and Jane are still single.
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#5. UNNECESSARY SUBJECTION OF THE WOMAN TO THE MAN: When a woman is married to her husband, and the marriage is consummated through sexual intercourse, she naturally becomes loyal to her husband. This is a sweet experience inside marriage. Outside it, it can sometimes be very ugly. Otherwise, how do you explain a lady who keeps returning to a man who keeps maltreating
her with a bruised face and arms to show for it? As soon as a woman has sex with a man, in the spirit realm, it is considered that she is married to that man.
Therefore, she becomes naturally submissive to him whether she likes it or not. When a woman finds herself in this kind of situation, she naturally becomes a toy in the hand of the man. She can give her entire life just to please the man. She can go any length just to see that the man is happy even to her detriment.
This is a pitiable situation. Unfortunately, many men, having known this, take advantage of the ladies as soon as they’ve unveiled the treasure of the woman, her body. Most times, they become sex slaves to the men.
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#6. UNPLANNED FATHERHOOD/MOTHERHOOD: The ‘shit’ happens. When you cohabit, sex is no longer planned, it can take place anywhere and there’s a high probability of having it without protection. Fast forward, it happened and there’s no one to blame and she didn’t know it early enough. She now has to give birth to the child and he must accept his responsibility. So, two people who were not
prepared to become parents all of a sudden find themselves having to cater for a child as a result of their foolhardy experiment. Surely, this is not something anyone wants to experience, that is why cohabitation is a rough play…DON’T TRY IT. And guess who suffers the pains the most, the lady of course.
My dear, love that walks on this road is a dangerous love, it can kill you. Any man that will not wait till after the altar experience to have you in his house is not worth your time, let him go somewhere else. If he likes, let him pay for all your hands and legs, until you have both walked that aisle, been pronounced as husband and wife, flee all opportunity to be in his house except in very much company say in birthdays or special celebrations and that with high caution. Help yourself so you won’t be telling ‘stories that touch.’
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#7. ABORTED DESTINIES AND MANY LOSSES: The chances are very high that the dreams of the man and the woman may eventually come to a standstill especially where they now have a child as a result of their recklessness. If their dreams are not completely aborted, they will suffer many things including shame, loss of concentration, loss of time, loss of respect from people and for themselves and may likely becomes victims of low self esteem. Cohabitation is nothing short of a self sabotage…it is a self inflicted evil.
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There are many other evils of cohabitation. What are some of them? Is it right to cohabit after hearing all these? What is your own take on the subject. Let’s hear you out.